While you've been quite vocal about your emotional reactions—which I do regret—you've been far less clear about the concrete actions to which tiu had those reactions, which makes it very difficult to assess whether I ought to do anything differently and, if so, what (the same is true of your criticism of the HN community more generally; you clearly feel you've gotten inadequate support and others have gotten better treatment, but it's not at all clear what you expected HN members to do for you and how others have been better treated.
> Please stop bothering me. I consider it to be actively malicious behavior at this point.
It's a public forum, and you don't get to exclude people from responding to you because of your interpretations of their motivations.
I'm certainly willing to consider criticism of things you think I've done wrong, but merely responding to your public posts, as such, is not something I’m going to avoid.
If you choose to see that as “actively malicious”, well, it may not be reasonable, but there’s really nothing I can do about that, is there?