every race has experienced hardships, but its comments like that that divide people in group 1: 'i didnt succeed because of my skin color' and the other people from group 2: 'they are complaining they dont have enough because of their skin color, calling me privileged because of my skin color, when I have nothing either'.

you do nothing for the conversation, you only prolong the back and forth. We are in control of our own destinies and comments like yours convince people otherwise.