I get it: harm can be caused even if the person is not drinking... My advice is this: eat, drink, love, wear your new clothes, enjoy life... don't waste it worrying about non problems...
We know it it's a problem because OP is asking for help.
It's unlikely OP is drinking 8% ABV wine.
3 bottles of 14% ABV would be 31 units a week - well over the recommended maximum.