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I think arguing that it must be called 'marriage' is petty. Redefining that word and stretching it to encompass more things is just stupid and less useful.

Sure, give them the same rights if you like, but just call it a 'civil partnership'.

If it was just about the rights, then I'd expect people to be happy with that. But it seems to be more about forcing an opinion onto others, which I disagree with.

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So instead of just using the word marriage for something that IS a marriage, we have to invent another term that doesn't mean anything else than marriage, but of two people who are of the same sex. Just because we have to. And that isn't petty.

It may be a 'marriage' as you like to define the word, but that doesn't magically make it so.

Shall we use 'marriage' to also cover the union of a man to a horse? man to a table? man to a child? They have civil rights too!

I've seen many things described as a marriage. Like special diplomatic relations between countries, business mergers, even product announcements. And I think that people can understand this. Once again, try to describe civil partnerships to somebody. What are you going to do? Say 'It's like a marriage, just don't call it so, because I don't like it'

(In the same way, I'd even describe your reason as 'religious, just there are no gods and churches and other deities involved'. We are also used to call fanboy disputes between the text editors or operating systems as religious wars. And it's a very good description.)

>> "(In the same way, I'd even describe your reason as 'religious, just there are no gods and churches and other deities involved'"

I'd be happy calling my argument 'historical'. I don't like changing things that have served us well for centuries.

That's exclusive, not inclusive 'us', I believe. This thing isn't serving me well. In fact, it is serving me very badly (gay marriage isn't going to improve that very much, though any remedy is welcome).

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