I would love to see the numbers you pulled out of thin air for your statement on deaths caused by software. I've met at least one developer who quit the profession because they were writing code that "would probably lead to someone's death."
Versus cars, where I'd be shocked if there's a single mass-produced model that hasn't killed someone.
I'm not sure how statistically significant the numbers are, but it's something!
(But your point still stands, of course.)