> but you have to make them think it was their idea.
The best way I've found to do this is to them you don't understand something and have them explain the solution to you.
Plus it's humility practice -- you might even turn out to be wrong!
The best way I've found to do this is to them you don't understand something and have them explain the solution to you.
Plus it's humility practice -- you might even turn out to be wrong!
But, you know, sometimes it turns out that I was actually the one not seeing some things clearly and by not coming out of the gate as a jerk about things we can both walk away having come to a collaborative solution and everyone feels good.