> they can always lower it later
I don't think this is true. Once you have blocks on the chain greater than 1mb, those blocks must be valid forever. That means protocol must support new blocksize forever.
> they can always lower it later
I don't think this is true. Once you have blocks on the chain greater than 1mb, those blocks must be valid forever. That means protocol must support new blocksize forever.
Also, it's misleading to say that large blocks make bitcoin centralized. Even with large blocks, there will still be enough players that the ledger is still protected through proof of work. In any case the hashing power remains centralized regardless of block size.
You are misunderstanding the meaning of the word "decentralized" when it comes to blockchains. It doesn't mean "available to be run by the masses". It refers to the solving of the Byzantine General problem through proof of work to prevent tampering and double spend, which would still function fine even if only a few thousand nodes existed around the world.
Centralized off-chain solutions are much less of a problem. Consider paypal. Everyone hates it but they're the only game in town because its network is self-contained; network effects prevent any legitimate competition. With centralized transactions through bitcoin, there are no network effects to prevent an upstart from competing in this space.
You are talking about concentration and consolidation at the human and social level, which does not change anything about how the blockchain is designed or functions, and is orthogonal. And nothing is going to change that. The government could shut off all electricity and the blockchain is dead.
You could have the consensus rules take the block height into consideration, so blocks after a certain # must be under X MB, but previous blocks can be up to Y MB.
And, as the GP pointed out, the sum of practical temporary solutions will have a very bad long-term effect. Of course, that doesn't mean that anybody will change course.