I'd say trying in itself can be seen as a partial success, hope you didn't get too financially impacted.
Is there any books/resources you (or other HN readers who also started their businesses :)) wish you had read before starting? Or that you did read and consider essential?
There are some great resources here and in books, but I can't think of anything I wish I'd have read earlier, and nothing I know of that would have changed my course. It might be out there, but I haven't read it yet. ;)
My team wasn't balanced enough, and we underestimated how much marketing we'd need. We were conflicted about raising VC money, so we wasted time dithering. We didn't figure out the right business strategy and our market until it was too late. All the books say to pay attention to this stuff, but none can really tell you how to do it in your case.
Great books I read include "Early Exits", "The Startup Owner's Manual", "Lean Startup", "Pitch Anything". I think I learned more about startups reading HN than in those books, but it's all good stuff. Seek out a wide variety of conflicting advice, find the best team, and go for it! ;)
How can you hire people or evaluate their work if you don't understand what they do?
Not if you have worked in a restaurant as a high level employee(eg exec chef) for quite a while.
(Exec chef here, 17 years experience)
Do people start restaurants with their own money? That seems like a nightmare.