>a well meant but incompetent attempt at improving the situation
I do not mean to dismiss your frustration, but I wonder if you are comparing the present situation to an unobtainable ideal.
Yes, email worked great in the early 1990s. (E.g., most people who ran the net-news infrastructure demanded that there be a working email address in the From field of every message, and I cannot recall anyone back then disagreeing with that demand.)
But the internet is drastically different now. We cannot just go back to the way it was.