most software, including iOS, OSX, and windows, has been doing antialiasing of fonts with the wrong gamma for years. this wrong gamma has been masking another problem: scaling a glyph shape without adjusting its weight is the wrong way to set type at a particular size. up til now, font hinting, and the wrong gamma has fudged the appearance of font weight to be “almost right” on low resolution displays. but on high resolution displays, you begin to see a font’s true weight more accurately, since the effect of wrong gamma and font hinting is significantly reduced. the result is small type sizes appear way more light than it “feels” they should.
Apple chose to solve this in a really unfortunate way for devices with high density displays: it applies a fake bolding effect to approximate the effect of the wrong gamma antialiasing. comically, they apply the wrong amount of fake bold, such that the fake bold affects type set at larger sizes way more than it should.
in conclusion: yes, let’s make 12pt the same everywhere: but we will also need to fix all these other hacks on hacks at the same time.