Can I disagree with some of your statements?
> We put up buildings that last centuries.
Not true anymore, Most modern constructions don't last very long. And this is survivorship bias as well, since most of what remains from previous centuries is just what was strong enough to withstand time. The large majority has disappeared and you just don't see it.
> We implement government structures and programs that last decades or centuries by design.
Look at the political map 100 years ago vs now, nothing lasts for very long. Look at currencies 100 years ago and now, you'd be surprised how much has changed as well. Political systems are by far the most unstable ones of your examples. You'd be lucky to be in a country for you whole lifetime without a drastic political or economic change.
> We frequently plant renewable forests that require planning over decades.
Yet we don't take care very well of ancient forests that were there for hundreds of millenia before us. Look what's happening in South America.
> We regularly choose careers and life pathways (eg marriage, children) meant to last decades.
The rate of divorces, single-parent families in modern times seems to indicate we are pretty bad at making such choices. They are "meant" to last decades but they usually don't.
> When it comes to this planet, we're extraordinary at long-term planning
We have also found ways to completely destroy and pollute our environment in a very short time, while the footprint of other species is much lower than humans overall. Overfishing has emptied fishes from many seas around the world. Numerous species are disappearing as we destroy their habitat. That's certainly not the signs of "species that plan well".