I was looking for something local, a library or sth like that. I don't want to run other processes just to query that memory. Spark is enormous and slow in comparison with local in memory solutions.
With a little bit more poking: Apache Calcite?
I would think maybe extending SQLite to use columnar storage would be one possible path that might make sense.
There are columnar DBMS engines you can embed like MonetDB, but I personally haven't seen a lightweight query engine sitting right on top of Parquet/ORC, or implementing Arrow for in-memory columnar. You can get Apache Spark up and running pretty quickly on a single node, but I haven't seen anything even easier than that.