Inside the Mind of Thru-Hiking's Devious Con Man
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Guessing few will make it to the end of the article, but was shocked to read the above, since the victim literally provided statements and evidence of them committing a federal offense.
Anyway if you're not lucky enough to have friends and customers physically nearby, social media could be your only connection to close friends or critical business contacts. Messing with that could really make someone's life difficult.
Seems like its one of those things that's technically illegal, but is unlikely to draw any actual legal action unless done in the service of some more serious offense.
(plus, I'm pretty sure fraud requires an intent to deceive. Given that the woman told a journalist what she was up to, it seems it would be hard to prove that she was trying to make people think she was actually the owner of the facebook account.)
If Alice were to go after Bob for logging in with credentials to an account she created, things seem pretty simple. But it seems difficult for Facebook to determine whether Alice and Bob are ok with a shared account or not. And even more so for the government to determine if it's ok for Bob to use those credentials.
> "You will not share your password (or in the case of developers, your secret key), let anyone else access your account, or do anything else that might jeopardize the security of your account."
The CFAA is terrifyingly broad, and this isn't even a tenuous application of it. Accessing and using someone else's account without their knowledge or permission is a clear violation regardless of who they are or what you do.
Posting "I forgot to log out!" on someone else's account is probably a criminal offense. Posting a picture injurious to their career and reputation clearly violates multiple sections of the CFAA.
Prosecutorial discretion is the only thing rescuing this situation; literally any internet operation on an account that isn't yours is arguably a criminal violation.
I agree that a suit or damages would be unlikely, but that's only at the discretion of judges; the basic CFAA violation here is unambiguous.
If someone gave me access then I'm allowed but am I committing fraud?
She shouldn't have done it, one. Two, she should have never told the author that she did, and three he shouldn't have published that part of the account.
Federal sentences are almost entirely in the hands of the judge, except in the case of statutory minimum sentences. While there are Federal Sentencing Guidelines, they are not mandatory, and judges may depart from them in either direction within the range set for each offense.
Heck, even in a federal plea bargain, the parties don't usually (can't, IIRC) include a sentence; they can include an agreement on how to apply the guidelines factor and a joint recommendation to the judge on whether to depart (presumably downward) from the guidelines, but the judge still sets the sentence.
Kinda sounds like some of you! ~snicker
> the true motivation of the swindler is never money. “They want to have power over other people,” she says. “What is more controlling than the most intimate thing of all?”
Indeed, I suppose if I had grown up like he had I'd feel very much powerless.
True -- Caldwell is bad news and he is really doing harm to his victims, but I think I understand some of what motivates him.
Understanding where someone comes from is empathy. That's a good thing to have and doesn't make you a sucker.
However, at some point in his life, he became an adult and has to take responsibility for his actions. If you keep giving a pass because of trauma that happened in his childhood, that now makes you a sucker.
If anything, society should try to provide people like this with counseling, psychological support, etc. However, at some point, they still have to make the choice to be a contributing member of society.
There is no mention of narcissistic rage though, maybe when he went crazy he upped and left town rather than start shouting, so perhaps his personality disorder was in the same cluster as narcissistic personality disorder. Whatever the label, it all started to go wrong for him right from the beginning. If his parents went their separate ways at 10 months, who was there at 5 months when he was learning to smile? Why is it that babies learn to smile so young? They imitate and some parents are beaming ear to ear with smiles, despite the lack of sleep. Others not. I imagine a year in or when his mum started to have new boyfriends she didn't like having him as a constant reminder of that guy who left her, the father.
So the next thing is the disruption. A 'normal' child has 24/7 attention on them when they are two years old, it is all about them, they have no need to attention seek. This child can go to dinner parties with the parents and be passed around with all the attention on them.
Meanwhile, the child not given that attention has to seek attention by being disruptive. They get positively banished and the idea of being the loved center of attention just doesn't happen. School comes along and again, disruptive child gets excluded, out in special rooms and not on the team.
In this time excluded from the rest a lot can be learned about stuff through books and screens, so although reading is brilliant, it is also living life second hand, not through experience.
So, on to the developed adult pathology. The narcissistic injury has to be hidden from the world behind this mask of a fake identity. So an identity is just taken wholesale, off someone else. In this instance he did steal a hiker's name and outfit, probably even the tattoos were stolen, all to create this mask.
People get genuinely taken in by the mask, they think it is all real until 3 months later when they start to get drawn in even deeper by the mask. Fundamentally a full time narcissist without financial backing from a family estate or the dad that did run away will not be able to generate income on their own. This is because they are unemployable. They don't get the whole premise of work, they are still that disruptive child behind that mask and they do not think of others. So they are obliged to be a con artist. They live off the largess of others, not lined up as marks, it just works out that way, the pattern is set.
The relationships this guy made went fabulously at the start with 'love' from the marks able to explain away that missing money or that missing ability to care. Eventually suspicions do get aroused and people get tired of the narcissist. But they keep trying to reel them back in with feigned remorse, e.g. the letters to say 'sorry'. This is actually felt in a second-hand way by the real character behind the mask and they do know that they have just burned someone, they just don't feel it.
The true narcissist will not believe in personality disorders or psychiatry. They don't want to know that for the same reasons a smoker does not want to know the truth about cancer. They actually have no idea about their condition or what they can do about it, even if they do get to read the wikipedia pages pertinent to the topic. They will be set in this pattern for life.
One problem with 'the mask' is that it is set in time. So this guy things he is some hip climbing type. That is the mask. This will have to be worn and clung onto until old age, even if being on the run another identity has to be assumed.
So what I found intriguing about the article was a complete lack of psychiatry and the on-the-couch diagnosis of something out there in the narcissism spectrum. We all could do with education in this area just to save a lot of time. We also need to have those in the front line - police, medical staff, HR professionals, better able to not be taken in by these people.
To varying degrees we were all neglected as children, to varying degrees we were all overly smothered with love as children, we all have imbalances and levels of narcissism, sometimes healthy, sometimes not. But then there are con-men like this guy that are so far off the scale it is hard to identify with them as human once the mask slips.
We should be very careful when labeling humans as subhuman. Not only is it a psychoanalytical cop out but it is the age old excuse for some of the most atrocious human rights abuses.
This is a man is a small time thief with social issues who manipulates people. What is so inhuman about that? Are social problems, thievery, and manipulation not common phenomenon in human societies?
Saying it that way doesn’t allow you to write 2 pages of pseudo-psychological “analysis” of a person we’ve never met.
Two things stand out about this article — one is the, um, diversity of human behavior. I wonder if I have a Jeff Cantwell in my life and if I’d be able to tell. I consider myself both analytical and introspective but also easy to garner sympathy from. This woman Borton was apparently able to tell, though it could also be revisionist memory.
>> I knew he was starting to see me as another mark, but I still felt guilty about saying no. I saw how easy it was to be charmed by him.
Yup, sounds like how I would feel.
Secondly, the article didn’t really go into detail, but it seemed like he was in and out of prison no problem, despite violating parole. Why did he keep qualifying for parole then? That seemed odd to me.
If you enjoy reading about con-men, I suggest reading about John D Rockefeller’s father: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/William_Rockefeller_Sr.
https://bikeportland.org/2012/05/30/oregonians-come-to-aid-o...
He told us he was a former aircraft mechanic for Quantas and had been given lifetime unlimited airfare, and was spending his retirement touring every continent. Had a story about every topic we brought up, and I think his angle was at least partly about impressing us with his adventures. He didn't ask for money directly but it was implied that he needed some. Another group of cyclists showed up before the conversation got too awkward and we took the opportunity to turn in for the night and let him work his magic on the newcomers instead.