So you’ve learned you’ve got a “pitifully” low IQ. How worried should you be?
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>Second, the people who get low IQ scores, are shocked, find their whole world tumbling in on themselves, and desperately try to hold on to their dream of being an intellectual – are not a representative sample of the people who get low IQ scores. The average person who gets a low IQ score says “Yup, guess that would explain why I’m failing all my classes”, and then goes back to beating up nerds. When you see someone saying “Help, I got a low IQ score, I’ve double-checked the standard deviation of all of my subscores and found some slight discrepancy but I’m not sure if that counts as Bayesian evidence that the global value is erroneous”, then, well – look, I wouldn’t be making fun of these people if I didn’t constantly come across them. You know who you are
Then again, my mentor who is at least one standard deviation higher seemed to have had few troubles socially.
High IQ doesn't make you have low EQ. Some people have both high or both low or one of each.
But even so, they are hugely limited in determining many very important qualities. Like social skills.
It's just another number we can calculate that happens to be relatively fixed by genetics and has some predictive power. But so is your height, and nobody raves about that.
I have always had a problem assuming everyone else gets what I am trying to imply, even with shorter sentences - but over the 26 years of my life I learned that was not true at all.
So essentially my learning of "why do I suck at socialising" had always been linked to learning "what are people not aware of", rather than somehow being "socially incapable".
So in short:
1. You don't have to be a math genius but you still can have a high IQ (this is why most standardized/Mensa IQ tests are centered around pattern recognition == "how well you are equipped to correctly figure something out")
2. Many terrible socially awkward people have extremely high IQs, but this doesn't have to be a prerequisite as such.
I'm a bit ashamed to have wanted to join one of these societies. To be fair, I just wanted to meet intelligent women. I looked at some of their pictures and there were like 95% men over the age of 40.
At work my mind automatically tries to guess people's IQs. I'm probably really bad at it, but I think I know when someone's REALLY below average. They ask questions that don't make sense, sometimes it seems like it's their first day on the job, etc. As frustrated as coworkers are in dealing with them, and as much as people claim IQ doesn't matter, if they are at one standard deviation below the mean, I can't help but feel society has to find a way to make sure they are taken care of.
Having a preoccupation with IQ tests will get you a high IQ test score. Because being very familiar with IQ tests violates the assumptions of IQ tests.
I’ve always assumed that this is why people who talk about their high IQ scores are insufferably dull.
I moved to the U.S. shortly afterward and I don't recall being tested.