Silicon Valley Is Inserting Its Biases into Nearly Every Technology We Use
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For instance, Facebook says that it will automatically stop assigning targeted ads by race, because it could get the race wrong. [1]
However, when they got the race "wrong" even though the person might have interests stereotypically associated with those races, there was a big outroar. If they had instead called the race groupings by some other name such as "urban" for rap and basketball, for instance, I think that would not be so much of a big deal.
[1] https://www.nytimes.com/2016/11/12/business/media/facebook-w...
If you don't realize this, you either need to spend more time interacting with people outside of your bubble, or your friends aren't comfortable enough with you to share their experiences.
If neither of those are the case, you should tell us where you live, and what the secret sauce to this magical, post-racism colorblind Utopia is.