Hi! I wrote all about this, you can read my thoughts here.
https://medium.com/thelist/papas-please-let-your-babies-grow...
https://medium.com/thelist/papas-please-let-your-babies-grow...
That all being said, I don't knock anyone as an individual for liking what they like. I also recognize that there are reasons for the disparity of women in tech other than gender role conformity due to socialization. It's just one I think deserves more credit than it gets.
There is a lot of "toxic femininity" I'm with you on that.