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When you were moving to Germany, how much did your partner not want to go as well? Did it take a lot of convincing? How did you structure your discussions?

Thanks for your input though. Helpful to know others out there have been in similar situations.

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I asked her, she told me: WHAT? LETS GO! She was more happy than me about what we've accomplished. The deal is that, this shouldn't be taken as your own accomplishment, but more of the couple, as it's life changing. Of course, relationships are different and so are people, so perhaps you aren't that close to her and vice-versa, and it's something that work for you both.

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