Human-generated metadata (i.e. OLTP data) grows roughly with respect to the population of internet connected humans - humans only can produce so much content in their finite time. Advances in computers far exceed this growth rate, so more of these kinds of problems fit into RAM each year.
The volume of media data, which depends more on the increasing fidelity of the media (videos going from 320K to 4K, photos going from 1MP to 30MP) have been increasing rapidly but that trend won't continue forever because there are diminishing returns. Do you care about the difference between 4K and 8K video? TV companies hope you do. At some point (likely soon) you will stop caring.
OLAP data, which includes data produced by IoT devices, sensors, etc is increasing geometrically. But this kind of data is not best stored in RAM anyway, and is served best by scale-out column-oriented and time-series databases.
In that case, a fast data access library will not buy you much, because the disk will be slow anyway.
(By the way it is common that an in-memory database is combined with on-disk storage for large blobs; those blobs are just flat files, and the OS already offers the fastest way to access them without any library)