> Because I get frustrated with people. I feel like they refuse to even attempt to understand.
Many people do refuse to understand. My parents & grandparents do that about anything computer related at all, not to mention math. Lots of people, especially guitar players, avoid learning music notation. Most people gloss over anything in a foreign or technical vocabulary.
I agree with you, and I get frustrated too, and I like to dig into mathy stuff, and I also find myself glossing over things and refusing to "get it" only to discover later it wasn't that hard.
So: does it help to get frustrated? Aside from expressing incredulity, what can you do to help someone more easily understand, or get motivated to understand?
It seems like for at least a subset of people, calling it "easy" and making pictures really truly does help them understand it, and/or spend the time being willing to understand it. What's wrong with that?
> I think it may even be cultural.
It might. I'd buy that Asian students get more math and have a slightly lower aversion in general. But I also know older Asians that refuse to learn simple computer concepts exactly the same way my parents do, so on that anecdata alone, I'd speculate that refusing to learn things that seem foreign or technical is part of the human condition. I'd even guess that this is an evolutionary advantage, that our brains actively avoid hard to understand things because it uses too many of our limited cognitive resources.