Ask HN: Job I love but with poor career progression vs. new job with higher pay?
I work at a company where I feel stuck in terms of career progression. I feel like I'm under my level, and my manager doesn't seem to care about helping me get promoted. He also doesn't seem to trust me very much, for whatever reason (I really can't figure out why). Also, my current company doesn't pay as much as other companies in the area, but the benefits are superior.
However, I love the work I've been doing there lately. I haven't felt this excited about the code I write in almost a decade. I get into that flow state when working on it, and I feel engaged with it to the point that I go to bed thinking about it.
On top of that, my current job is just comfortable. Crunch is unheard of. I have lots of vacation time and the company is very generous about paid holidays. I can work at home whenever I feel like it. You get the idea.
I wasn't feeling this excited about work until recently though, so I went looking for a new job elsewhere. And now I got feedback from one of my interviews, and I am being offered a crazy amount of money plus a position at a higher level. I know someone at the company and they like working there. It would be a great opportunity to learn new things.
But I don't know what to do. It comes down to deciding between staying at a subpar job where I'm comfortable and in love with my code vs. moving to a new place that pays way more and has better career progression, but where I have no idea what it's going to be like in terms of stress, hours, etc.
If anyone has been in a similar situation, I'd love to hear what you decided to do.