880 matches holy shit, that has to be 8x as much as the average guy. Life must be so easy.
She matched with a new guy every two days basically, and he mentioned she only sent 1700 messages since she started. That's almost two average messages per match before getting bored and moving on.
With that much abundance of choice, I guess you could say life is nice and easy for the author.
Which is better, getting 1,000 matches in a day, when 999 of them are people who just swiped right no matter what, or who are downright rude, aggressive or poor communicators?
Or getting 2 meaningful matches in a day from people who actually want to meet you and might be a good fit for a relationship or friendship?
The first is just a bunch of noise with no signal. The second is preferable.
And plus, I'm a guy and I would easily get 3 or 4 matches a day when I was on Tinder. It's not like men are completely ignored on it. I'm hardly a supermodel, but nice pictures and a well-written profile can go a long way on online dating. Plus living in a high-population city.