I've always wondered what the deliverability of mail is that gets sent out from homespun servers with setups like this? I've always assumed it would mostly all end up in spam folders but genuinely curious if anyone has any experience.
The answer is, rDNS, SPF, DKIM, abuse.net registry, feedback loops with major mail services - are all memes.
You can do everything right, which is an extremely manual effort once you get as far as building code that identifies the top mail services used by your mailing list and reaching out to ISPs and mail hosts individually and asking them to whitelist you.
And you'll still find deliverability extremely poor.
Even Troy Hunt went in circles trying to get HIBP emails delivered to Microsoft Office 365 users.