I would say that the fundamental idea to understand is the concept of changing ratios.
Limits seems to me to be more a tool in order to calculate the ratios than a fundamental concept.
Limits seems to me to be more a tool in order to calculate the ratios than a fundamental concept.
Hence, the gap between "5 year old calculus" and "high school calculus" is smaller than the gap between "high school calculus" and "actual calculus"