Saw an article recently stating
* bottom 80% of the men all compete for 20% of the women who actually respond to them
* the other 80% of the women only respond to the top 20% of the men
* bottom 80% of the men all compete for 20% of the women who actually respond to them
* the other 80% of the women only respond to the top 20% of the men
Women by in large had an average at 6/10. Men had an average around 2.5/10.