And even in coding, more companies are slowly requiring formal education as a prerequisite for even applying for jobs. We know someone like you can be just as productive as someone from a great school, but that won't matter if you're cut from the selection process.
I say all of this because there has been a significant upward tick over the last 5 years. Roughly speaking new grads are now making the same as what people with 5 years of experience made 5 years ago.
The interview process is intimidating, but many people would likely be able to get through it if they did a couple months of intensive interview prep beforehand.
Also, consider moving to the Bay Area, or another major city.
That's because the law doesn't allow it.
See "Competition & Monopoly In Medical Care" by Frech, pg. 54 for a detailed discussion.