```
booking.com: 'talk to the hotel for a refund'
hotel: 'talk to booking.com for a refund'
```
Yea I experienced this last March. Charegbacks are not easy for regular consumers. Their customer service are trained to never give refunds (based on first-hand experience).
You'd have to be a valued client of your bank to have a successful dispute. And it is the only way I believe.
Both parties (booking.com and hotel) simply won't budge.