>I hear people griping about "brogrammers" now, though I've never actually met one, so far as I know.

Yep, that's been 100% my experience. I don't know what a "brogrammer" is, only that apparently I am one and they are scum. And I've been here for 3 years. It's been getting worse; two years ago people would at least talk to me for more than a few minutes at a time. One year ago people would grudgingly give me a chance, but you could see them clocking out once tech stuff came up.

This year, the resentment is palpable. And I'm so tired of putting in so much and ... I just can't do this anymore.