I'm guessing you've never written a Windows app with C++ and MFC. Or have done any hardcore UI development in C# or Java - both languages that are easily way more verbose - and require way more boilerplate - than Obj-C.
My assumption is that you simply don't grok it, that you haven't learned how to utilize dynamic dispatch, KVO, etc. to greatly simplify and streamline your application designs. Or you are one of those script kids that takes all the low level shit for granted. This isn't python. This isn't ruby. This isn't even smalltalk. It's a high level layer on top of a low level language. You don't get that kind of performance without some sacrifice, but rest assured that sacrifice is significantly less than C/C++ while maintaining similar or the same performance.