Based on the experiences of systemd, gtk, and X11 in switching to Meson, I'd think Meson might be the best choice here. While Buck, Bazel, Pants, etc. are designed for large projects, Meson is designed for small-to-medium-size projects and integrates with pkg-config, which in turn should provide simpler integration with distribution package managers. My experiences with Bazel demonstrated that integration with distribution packages can be quite difficult.