I can understand certain behaviors not being allowed but viewpoints?
Yes.
I would love to support a site that puts its foot down and says extreme, offensive viewpoints are prohibited.
And yes, I am afraid of (some of) "these people." Have you not watched the news for like the last fifty years?
I am far, far more afraid of you and those who share your viewpoint.
The number of people such as yourself who want to censor speech and police thought, however, is frighteningly high. You are the same as those who advocated for book bannings and burnings at other points in history and it is depressing that your point of view has the strength it currently does once again.
I'm a lot more afraid of someone who's decided it's time to "show them queers who's boss" with me as the target than someone who wants to keep that same person off Medium. There are ample publishing opportunities for bigots. Unlike refusing to serve someone at the only grocery store in town, one of a million publishing outlets refusing to take an article has minimal effect.
Relevant aside: the picture of the Nazi book burning often shown when talking about free speech was from a clinic in Germany that researched and supported LGBTQ people https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Institut_f%C3%BCr_Sexualwissen...
19 people out of a group of 0.3% of the population (self-reported) being murdered is far below the average intentional homicide rate of the general population.
By far I mean it's working out at about 0.2/100,000 compared to the 4.8/100,000 as experienced overall.
Can we not discuss this without leaning on appeals to emotion and hearsay?
No. I'm not a robot. The value and limits of free speech are all about feelings, especially whose feelings matter more and in what contexts. Without feelings, rights wouldn't matter because no one would care how people treat each other.
That's neither becoming nor conducive to discourse.