If you're paying 3% you're getting ripped off. There is no reason you should be paying more than 1%. In the EU interchange is 0.3% for credit and the scheme fee is less than that.
Maybe if you're doing an unauthorised, interdomain transaction with an imprinter in a brothel then 3% is reasonable.
[1] http://europa.eu/rapid/press-release_MEMO-16-2162_en.htm
There are lots of kinds of fraud that aren't identity based.
High cost of for credit card transactions is because merchant pays for the 60 day interest free loan on the money that the bank is giving the consumer to make the purchase. Debit network transactions are a lot lower, 0.5% for durbin amendment cards(90% of cards out there).
How you answer those questions determine chargeback eligibility. Even if networks do issue a chargeback, you can provide a 2nd presentment with evidence supporting your claim that it wasn't your fault. Finally, if all else fails, you can go the Good Faith Credit route.
Which leads me to say that the burden of fraud really falls on the network, not the merchant, since they have to abide by definitive chargeback policies set forth, and be willing to accept 2nd presentments for the sake of maintaining merchant relationships.
Your conclusion still holds true- swipe fees should be less than 3%- probably closer to 1%... let's just say I work in the industry, and see how the proverbial sausage is made.