Xtend never was alive, and it's clear Ceylon has lost at this point, even though it is arguably better designed than Kotlin. However, they made some bad syntactic decisions (not shedding enough of the Java verbosity, introducing new weird keywords), and when you're doing run the mill Java-like programming, it's just more gratifying to write/read Kotlin code.
Scala's development is somewhat unpredictable, but I think it's fair to say it's lineage is not going away either. New compilers are being developed by the original team (Dotty) and by Twitter (reasonable scala) with very different objectives. Currently, there simply aren't any many contenders in Scala's niche (very powerful statically typed programming languages with a pragmatic bend, i.e. not Haskell). C++ could fit the bill but pushes memory management and Cthulhu on you. The ML family could also fit the bill, but lacks momentum/hype. However Facebook is spearheading a revival with Reason ML. Scala's big trump card is the Java library ecosystem.