How do I improve my storytelling?
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The best advice in the world only works in the context of practice.
Practicing makes advice meaningful.
Practice and then practice more. Then practice more.
Get feedback. Seek advice. Iterate. But practice.
Name anyone who mastered a performance art who didn't practice more than most. Even if you can, I can name a hundred who did.
Practice, practice, practice.
Find audiences you can practice with and practice with them. Until then, practice by yourself, in front of a wall if that's what you have. Use a mirror or a camera. Practice. The more you practice, the more audiences you'll find.
Then practice more.
When practicing for a presentation, I'm always getting bored by my own story after the first rehearsal.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Practice_(learning_method)#Del...
They're both based on the premise to consume small parts, how does this work with stories?
People can look at hundreds of math examples in 30min and probably solve a few special parts of problems in 30min.
But how do you do this with stories?
Write 5-10 intros in an hour?
What parts of a story are even small enough to count as deliberate practice when your write them?
Intro, main, outro? Is this like with songs? Are there fills? interludes? breaks?
http://www.anecdote.com/2016/11/how-to-practice-storytelling...
https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/20140320175655-176238488-lear...
Hangout with someone who tells good stories and you will hear the same story come back often. The more they tell it, the more it sounds like it is the very first time they tell it.
I watched a lot of videos from Seth Godin, even the jokes are the exact same, but everytime the audience is hearing it for the first time.
So yeah. Practice.
Edit: typo
I can't tell them to just stop. They really like telling these stories. But if it's a 5-minute story and I've already heard it 5 times before, it's just not fun at all.
Even more important is getting good input that you can model. Read fiction every day. While non-fiction is generally read for the purpose of furthering an instrumental goal (e.g. learning how to do something or learning about something), fiction's one job is to be interesting. As a result, even storytellers who are relatively weak by the standards of fiction authors are well ahead of typical business speakers or writers.
Pay attention to what keeps your attention and why. Pay attention to what you remember a week after you've finished the book.
There are short TED talks on giving TED talks. Here is but one play list. https://www.ted.com/playlists/226/before_public_speaking
If you must have slides
-- don't use bulleted text much -- don't use much text at all -- use images, pictures, sketches
See how boring that is.
And don't read your slides when you do have text.
I'm much better at presentations than one on one. I tend to provide more details than I should one on one. There is room for improvement.
Storytelling greatly depends on personal charm. Rehearse that first if it can be rehearsed. I am not sure it can.
And then she said x
So I responded with y
And then she was all like, "I can't believe you responded with y"
And I was like, "blah blah blah"
...then it's not a story; it's a reenactment. I love stories. I hate hearing reenactments.Was pretty interesting.
While 20% of it is the story itself, 80% is the delivery, and that can only come through practice