The use cases for OTP are actually quite narrow, despite what Erlang/Elixir evangelists tell you.
Discord is a fantastic use for OTP. Writing a CRUD app with a couple of reactive/interactive pages for comments on videos and few thousand users, OTP is overkill.
If you have an app that needs the scale and safety of OTP, then which language you pick makes no difference.
Phoenix is a really cool project, written by great developers and the community is probably the nicest and most helpful you will ever meet. But how many companies/projects need the performance and redundancy of Phoenix/OTP in their web application at the cost of not being able to hire developers?