Any one of Berkeley, Emeryville, or Oakland would be great!
In Berkeley there's:
- the new David Bower center (aka The Hub) in downtown
- Caffe Med on Telegraph near campus is pretty spacious
- the 2 story Starbucks on Oxford & Center in downtown
Emeryville is kind of limited:
- Peet's on Bay Street seems roomy
Oakland:
- A'Cuppa Tea on College & Alcatraz is bigger than the average local coffee shop, open late, and has free Wifi
I'd also be happy to put you in touch with someone in Startup @ Berkeley for more help and ideas.