Procreation only comes behind not dying in our list of biological prerogatives. Avoiding being a "douchebag" involves controlling these impulses. Suggesting men have a sex-drive is a not an example of the typical-mind-fallacy.
That said, your premise is invalid. Biological prerogatives are not significant in the not-even-slightly-sexually-premised interactions between members of the 21st century tech community with career motivations and numerous other factors at work that evolution did not prepare them for. Saying that "biological prerogatives" are a significant factor here is like saying that a lemur let loose in a supermarket would be drawn to product branding based on how likely a given brand was to help the lemur secure a mate--too many factors have changed for simple parallels to be drawn.
Edit: spelling, I still keep forgetting this isn't markdown.
I guess we are in tech so we should be able to suppress all the impulses, desires, and feelings that have been carved into us over hundreds of thousands of years of evolution.