Whereas you don't appear to be an authority, made a fairly broad claim ("so much wrong..."), explained nothing and cited...crickets.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4557354/
The evidence that IQ predicts success is dubious, and certainly not settled.
I also consider him wrong about EQ, although for more anecdotal reasons:
I have known people who can read individuals and social situations with extraordinary skill, make astonishingly accurate predictions about social and personal outcomes, and manipulate both with extraordinary efficiency and effectiveness.
I've also known high-IQ individuals who were worse than average at all of the above, and who suffered poor social, political, and financial outcomes as a result.
So IMO EQ is a recognisable skill, and it's clearly not the same as agreeableness in the Big Five.
It may not have been well-defined or well-researched in psychology, and the original book definition may not be accurate either. (I haven't read Golman, so I don't know what he says about it.)
But it's nonsense to pretend it simply doesn't exist.
It's like seeing some people are on average better at sports than others and saying there must be a "sportiness" trait that determines how good you are at sports. Instead we know it's a combination of various different things, many of which are independent of each other.
Rather than rigorously discussing on what is technically wrong with the corpus of evidence and how it could be improved, she throws and regurgitates FUD in so many areas that it is nigh-impossible to address them all.
Thanks for wasting fifteen minutes of my life, OtherHobbes.