The best programmer is the one who can solve the problem effectively and efficiently without even touching the keyboard.

You don't have to be "good". You have to solve the right problem efficiently. Find the right problem and be the solution. If you need to write a program, make an easy one. Easy to use and easy to maintain. You'll get what that means after a few years of maintaining. Nobody ever cares if you're a "good programmer" or how you feel about yourself.