With kids at home? specifically?!
There are ways to enjoy life, or take "risks", that do not involve mortal danger.
> Do we need to look down upon astronauts who have children? What about pilots? .. Someone who commutes .. in a car that has a poor safety rating?
Are those as dangerous? If so, then yes, I think so.
> People who travel for work for days or weeks at a time?
People agonise about this all the time. But seeing the kids not very often is very different from dying and never seeing them again.
> The good news is that once you become a father, you'll get to decide (possibly with a partner) what the acceptable level of risk is for you and your family.
Oh, great. Does that mean we should also stop judging people about abuse and neglect too? I mean, fuck other peoples kids, right?