Allowing an iPhone to bring you some joy is okay, but allowing it to make you deeply upset is stupid.
If something can bring you a lot of joy, by not working it can take that joy away, making you upset. I'm not saying that guy expressed himself correctly, but I can understand why he would be upset at the idea that Apple and Jobs doesn't seem to think this problem is real and needs a fix.
An angry letter seems like a pretty rational response if it means that you can still feel meaning in your life.