Lwt looks nice, but also seems a lot more intrusive to me than, say, Go. It's based on promises (so it's very explicit), and if I remember correctly, in order to do any I/O you have to use the Lwt mechanisms instead of the standard ones (which block).

How does Lwt interact with third-party libs that aren't written to use Lwt? I know from Ruby that libevent-type stuff such as Eventmachine doesn't combine all that well with non-async code.

Go made a good call in making all I/O blocking. That means code is easy to read and write. It comes with downsides, such as that you have to use goroutines, but for most developers it's a more productive concurrency model. (Unfortunately there's no alternative; you can build a blocking system out of a non-blocking one with no overhead, but the opposite is not true. When I first started with Go I was surprised that you can't "select{}" on a file descriptor or socket, or indeed any custom implementation, in the same way that "range" is magical and only works on built-in types.)