The browser will still let you choose. It's just changing the default.
> For example in my home network I have different vlans: one for things i reasonably trust, and one for the chinese webcams and iot lightbulbs.
Congratulations, you are the 0.0001%.
> If my router has malware, even if i talk to it over https I'm screwed anyway, I don't think that is something I can fix with https.
Right, but if your lightbulb has malware and your router doesn't yet, then using HTTPS while talking to the router is pretty important.