Facebook to Show Ads on Messenger to Bolster Revenue Growth
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Your only choice is wether this friend is controlled by Google, Apple, Facebook or Amazon.
http://www.npr.org/2014/06/16/322597862/how-retailers-use-sm...
I think Facebook have rapidly transitioned to an ad first, rather than user first, experience.
[1]: Screenshot - http://imgur.com/a/hCxOT
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Hell I even just went ahead and installed signal on my families + extended families phones. Now we all use it, and no one is the wiser.
They all also have Messenger installed and use it. Because that's what everyone else uses.
And your contention is that they will continue to do so if it sprays ads in their face?
If that bothers you, other options I use on the regular include Skype, Steam, Wickr, Mattermost, Slack, email and XMPP.
XMPP's federated nature makes it ideal for this kind of thing, but people liked the integrated nature of Facebook back in XMPP's hayday. As Facebook poisons each component of their own product, that integrated nature gets less attractive. I know one person specifically who only uses Facebook for messenger these days. This will give me an opportunity to help him leave. I don't mind what he picks to replace it as long as it doesn't require me to surrender personal data to use, and there's a rich selection of options to choose from.
I know that's not good enough for you, I can think of a few people like you just based on your tone.
I stopped using Facebook in ~2009, and when I did, about 95% of the people I knew swapped right back to skype without an issue, but 5% never initiated conversation with me again, because they were so completely consumed by Facebook they'd forgotten how to even remember people without it. I occasionally hit them up via other people just to keep in touch, but ultimately it's not my job to try to give them perspective.
I think everyone uses email, but I don't have most peoples' email addresses.
I'm not saying the technology in alternatives isn't there. I'm saying the network effect isn't there.
Have you tried asking them?
I've had good experience with meeting people half way. I tell people "I'm not going to use facebook messenger. If you want to know why, I'll grab my laptop and give you the full hour long litany of every crime they've committed against their users since the company was founded, but the short version is I'm just not. I'll use any communication mechanism you chose that a) does not require facebook or google accounts and b) works even marginally on an android phone without google play services or a linux desktop.". You'd think that would be a short list, but it's not, and I've never failed to find something everyone is happy with. Once it's installed, everyone gets push notifications and no one actually cares who the provider is.
To bypass it you have to go on someone's profile and tell your phone to request a desktop site. Then it works.
It's mobile centric, browser based and gives you access to Messenger. Also, doesnt require the "hack" of requesting the desktop site (which may or may not work.) The trade-off is that lots of automatic Javascripty things don't work the same way.
It's worked well for me.