Yes, they did have to blanket-ban it to begin with. If they're to make an exception for this, then in the interest of avoiding fragmentation they won't be making an exception for the Ruby language in the abstract; rather they'll be making the exception for the MacRuby implementation in particular. MacRuby is a unique implementation, and programming Cocoa through MacRuby is vastly different (and incompatible) experience from programming Cocoa on other OS X Ruby implementations.
Given that MacRuby is not considered "stable" just yet, the time is not right for Apple to provide an exception to 3.3.1 for Ruby programming. If this does happen, then it will happen only after MacRuby is good and ready.
I emphasize that I do not support Apple's draconian policies toward iOS developers, but their behavior here is internally consistent with the possibility of an eventual allowance for MacRuby.