This is a fundamental misunderstanding of the GPL. The GPL merely requires corresponding source to be made available alongside binaries, so if you get a binary from someone you have a right to the corresponding source from that person. It does not require anyone to offer you a binary; it merely says if they did, you can get the corresponding source.
GRSecurity has no obligation to provide you a binary, they can decline to offer you one because you have a silly walk or a 13-character username or you exercised your rights under the GPL. The GPL does not entitle you to product updates or to continue to be a customer of someone who doesn't want you as a customer, it merely entitles you to corresponding source for binaries.
Some would say GRSecurity's practice violates the spirit of the GPL, but the GPL is not a spiritual entity, it's a legal document, and if you want a legal document that produces a different outcome you can write one up.
Also, you should read the fine print from any other Linux vendor – RHEL, Oracle, etc. You don't have to go on "my understanding from several reliable sources", the documents actually state they'll terminate you as a customer if you redistribute their stuff.