The thing is, I run my own personal email server. It's not used for spam ever. It's only personal email to family members, friends, and the odd reach out to support. The volume of email is so small it's ridiculous. I might send up to 10 mail (1 receiver each) per month. I set it up with SPF and DKIM properly, triple checked.
And yet, for whatever reason, sometimes my email end in spam. Generally when I send attachment (like pictures). But sometimes it's just completely arbitrary.
How about this : for you it might be a "few false positive", because so much of the wanted mail traffic originates from google in the first place. But for the few of us that use mail as was intended, this becomes a huge problem.
Having a mailing list doesn't necessarely mean the content is unwanted. I'm subscribed to HN replies for instance. I want those email. If it started going to spam, I might consider "hey it's a few false positive". But for the HN replies guys, it would be maddening to be unable to fix the problem because Google can't be arsed to have a support channel.
From my POV, Google is way past "aggressive filtering" territory and way into "monopolistic behavior".