Why Talking to Yourself Might be The Highest Form of Intelligence
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I have a coworker who processes everything externally. He even reads e-mail out loud to himself. He doesn't gain the same...clarity...that people are talking about in this thread.
So I really think it's a question of walking yourself through everything you know about the problem and everything you've tried. Regardless of whether it's verbal or not.
Then, when it is time for us to meet, all that writing has helped the ideas solidify in my head enough for it to be very easy to explain to him what I'm trying to doand how, and then his comments can be very useful. Before we arranged this I'd block for days without managing to think some detail through, but now I just start writing him an email about the issue and by the end of the email I usually have an idea as to how can I solve it.
I talk to myself a lot. I was an only child, so I never really got socialized against it, and often didn't have anyone else present to talk to. However, this usually happens when I'm idly woolgathering, not when I'm working on a problem. Problems require writing!
Often the eureka moment occurs when I realise that my hidden assumption just makes no sense at all and I feel stupid but elated at the same time.
Personally I do need someone to be there otherwise my mind carries on hiding things behind my back.
I don't think my mind and me are on the same team sometimes :)
[1] http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/37926551/ns/health-behavior/