I think all of those cases are covered by any imminent threat clause, and thus do not need special exemptions. Just like there isn't an exemption that you are not allowed to shoot a retreating person. It simply follows because (with exceptions) retreating people aren't imminent threats.
That isn't normal, though. It's likely that you were already feuding, and so the law will look askance at you for not bringing authorities into it much earlier.
I've read but couldn't find again the story of someone shooting a tief to get back his VHS player and walk free.
I'm not arguing for actually using the law to shoot people: I don't ever want to be in that situation myself, but I'm saying depending on the situation you do in fact have the law on your side.