You can ask and claim whatever you want. That was never in question. What I do question is whether you're serious or just trying to bait a response.
As for the moral premise you're presuming I hold, please spare me your intellectual gymnastics.
Explain to me how Afghan society would be changed by allowing a small group of girls into the United States for a few days -- so they can participate in a robotics competition.
This veneer of non-interventionism and pragmatism is no more than a facade you hide behind.