Not to be confrontational here (or argue with your primary point), but I'm pretty sure you didn't read the whole post. It says in the post that he's been going attending regular counseling already.
I am glad he is seeking help but I hope its for purposes of identifying his desires/behaviors and not only mandated by circumstance.
This is some of the most ridiculous phrasing I've ever come across.
Many people sometimes act creepily without even being aware of it. A little empathy as to how the other person feels and what their goals are can help one treat them with the respect they deserve. Hopefully the author can discover when his various desires are appropriate to express in context of the circumstances at hand.